2025 August #845
A personal note from Sylvia
Many people through embarrassment and shame, hold old pains and hurts close, hiding them out of the light. Burying them deep inside in the hope that they will simply disappear.
These unresolved issues flare up and are revealed when you are quickly angered, frustrated, or feel unsettled at the slightest little upset or misunderstanding.
It is vital that we get right down to the roots, and lay out the specific reasons why there are wounds that have yet to be healed.
If you cannot bring emotional hurts into the light, then you're hindering the power of the heart - to bring about healing in your mind and emotions.
When there are things or events from your past for which you have still not forgiven yourself, then now is a good time to make a list of those things, in order to effectively release the hate held secretly within your heart against yourself.
Emotional wounding is the most common reason that physical healing and wounds of the heart, take so long or fail to fully resolve.
Our goal is not to forget a hurtful event or trauma, but to remove the sting from it and receive healing within the chambers of our hearts. When we look back upon a healed wound, we can see it in a different way. The scar may still be visible, but it is fading and is no longer holding any pain.
The fear of approaching a healing session is the fear of having to tell the story. Not so! It is not necessary to speak out the hurtful story. The answer lies in simply identifying where, what and how and possibly why an episode happens repeatedly. To come to an understanding and re-write the story be it his-story, or her-story or that which was totally your-story.
Those who have been wounded may set high expectations for others around them. They feel that others ought to hold up to unrealistic standards and are very intolerable to any mistakes made.
Perfectionism, is a common trait for a person who has an emotional wound and may be performance driven. Perhaps you felt like no matter what you did, you could never please an authority figure, and later on in life, that rejection wound caused you to be a performer to the point where you are never satisfied and burn out by your efforts.
Keys to Healing
The first thing that you want to clear are any feelings of guilt and shame, especially any feelings that God is somehow disappointed or angry with you. When dealing with a physical wound, what is the first thing you do? Cleanse it from germs so that it can properly heal.
When dealing with spiritual or emotional wounds, carrying around baggage (guilt, shame, fear, etc.) makes the healing process much more difficult.
Carrying a burden of shame is a sure way to hinder the inner healing process because it mentally separates us from the delicate softness of the heart. To truly heal damaged emotions, we need to resolve it in the ancestral history - our DNA memory. Stopping repetitive patterns of behaviour.
The foundations of Your-Story - are rooted in your DNA memory - spiralling back through family intergenerational lives. In order to heal these deep familial wounds we invite you to attend Transforming DNA Memories where intergenerational healing will take place.
Closing Message
When you’re feeling anxious you actually holding the very thing you don’t want in subconscious thought. You can give yourself permission to allow yourself to let go of anxiousness and choose to trust your own inner strength. You’ll not only feel better, but you’ll also find you are actually more at ease.
So many expressions of love and connectedness.
Sylvia 🌸